Important Counseling Tips for Happy Married Life
Many couples have to go through bad times in their married life. Stress and anxiety often makes the situation worse and there comes a time when the couples are left with only one option and that is divorce. But there are many ways to save your relationship and the efforts need to be made by both the partners from the very initial phase which they use to ignore considering it as minor fight. Dr Ashima Shukla suggests following counseling tips for the couples to get over the bad phase easily:
- Both the partners need to treat each other equally. They must avoid cutting the other person off when they say something. Give your partner the freedom of expressing his/her thoughts so that you can understand what the other one is feeling. Listening with patience will be very helpful.
- There are many times when couples try to prove themselves right during the argument. If you are also doing this, then you need to change your habit immediately as it will be of no use. Expecting to win every argument will ultimately weaken your bond with your partner. Instead of arguing, try to find out the solution to the problem.
- Respecting the opinion of your partner will make them realize that you care for them. By validating the ideas of your partner you will show your respect for input. If you take this same attitude on every discussion or argument you may find that your partner has also start respecting your opinions.